Can you control your emotions? Its hard right especially when you are angry with someone. When we are in the verge of anger , we utter hurtful words and this will be the start of a broken relationship. How can we resist it and control it?
The answer lies on you. In the new testament, James reminded us:
James 1:19 NIV
[19] My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry,
https://bible.com/bible/111/jas.1.19.NIV
Hence, its very important to listen first, pause and assess the situation. You dont need to win an argument everytime. Ego is the number one enemy. Let go of ego and start to pause and reflect before uttering hurtful words. At the end of the day, the most important thing is to preserve a relationship not broke it. We need to widen our circle rather than trimming it.
Lets build a family founded by faith and divine wisdom. We can do it by starting to change ourselves. Dont be in a rush to react, if you are not ready yet, remember to PAUSE.
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